As a woman is it nice to feel protected by a man or is that feeling outweighed by the vulnerability experienced throughout A woman's life

Is it an attractive feeling to know that the man you are with loves you and protects you but also at the same time he could

Destroy you and inflict great harm that seems to be the plot of every romance novel I have ever read

And that what in female erotic literature as well

I not a woman so only a woman can answer that question but I would imagine it's a bit of both