For the sake of what I was writing I was arguing in the case as in people not want to keep the relationship going

Because they where lazy

I do understand they are many reasons why things don't work out but if I stated writing that I would have written a book by the time it's finished

So I got to keep this generalistic, write about averages or keep things vague

For example if I wrote on average men are taller then woman then I would have somebody tell me aunty Jenny is over 6 ft tall

But again I am writing about the averages or the norm not every outlier like Genghis khan or Jeff bezos

I hope I am giving a good reply to your comment I have been working since 10 am to 10:50 pm

So at this time I may just be rumbling in my thoughts