From my experience I got dyslexia which means that I have issue spelling and dyspraxia means

I got issues with moving around I not embarrassed by it I know it bothers other people sometimes due to ignorance

But it's not something I would shout from the rooftops or brag about or make it an identity

Heck when I was in my teens and early 20s I once did not live my bed for 2 years and had a big depression episode

That not something I would wish on anybody it's like not have the control over your own body and mind

I think if people want to go through hardship and develop themselves they should join the military 🪖