Human beings tend to be contradictory when it comes to that personalities and choices it's possible for a person to

Have kindness, cruelty, understanding, ruthlessness and being set in their ways all at the same time

We are all very complicated people and we do things in our own way

For me when it comes to grieving I tend to laugh, make jokes and make cruel comments but that's my way of grieving

We all grieve in our own way