I much appreciated your comments

I think I have managed to save it

For men I think the goal of feminism was to free both sexes from having to behave in certain ways

So the ideal is for both to be free but that seems to be going in the opposite direction

Also boys are told not to feel and not to show emotions or to receive those emotions

For me my brothers, grandmother and mother don't hug me or say they love me so in relationships I

Can be emotionally distant and it's true for a lot of men

As for women I do believe that on some circles they are condition to dislike men with emotions