I think that a lot of people get stuck in a rut and go through the motions of life

Most people don't go to the gym or are very self reflective of themselves and others

And with a man I think it's the case of being blunt

Yep it's not romantic asking somebody how many children do you want, do you want to live in the city or the outskirts

What do you want from life, how important is sex in a relationship, who's doing the cooking and the cleaning

And how often will be seen your mother on the weekends

I know too many people whose relationships are based on first meetings and romance which fades after a few years

Because the relationship is not based on anything of substance

And sometimes I think it's also about saying I am not perfect and I am a flawed person

But nobody goes on a date saying all that stuff because the other person my not be interested in that much

Honesty from the get-go