I would say that if you are a woman whom is a high achiever they would be looking for a man on their level
No man or woman whom is high status would want a man or woman who is useless
I believe that modern culture is being influenced by a new money and figures in the red pill movement
Such as Andrew Tate, fresh fit podcast and Rollo tomosi
If you're somebody who's new to wealth I'm from a working class background you would have no problem marrying a barista
If you from a family who's been well off for two or more generations then you won't marry the barista at Starbucks