In every romance novel I have read the young woman is seduced by a powerful man

A lot of that has got to do with the environment humanity has evolving a woman would need a man

To keep her and her children save so her fantasy man would need to be strong, capable of using violence and be resourceful

But with all of that even though he is capable of great violence he is a devoted father and lover who does not sleep around

It's the classic beauty and the beast trope where only one woman can tame her man

It nothing to be ashamed of it just a womans nature