I've only listened to half of it so far but I'm going to comment as I go along

It sounds incredibly mature with what your husband is doing and that he's meeting your emotional needs

Each of us have different love languages and different means of coping different people need different things

It's recognising and accepting those differences which is a high level of majority

When I say this now I'm not saying this to take away from anything which you are saying it's just an example

For myself my female relatives on my mother's side of the family don't say I love you are hug people

Their love languages is not through physical affection it's through gift giving

I think that's something we all can learn and to accept that we are all different and being different it's not a bad or a good thing

It's about whether or not you can accept over people are different and need different things and whether or not you can live with that