That is very much the culture and society we only value the maiden stage of life we don't value the matron and matriarch

Stages of life we can see that in our celebrity culture

I think it's the case of unplugging oneself from that culture

It also depends and what kind of relationship she is in

If it's one based on physicality and sexuality then stating attractive will naturally play a big part

Sometimes it just comes down to looking after your own body and eating properly

That goes for both men and women

I do think it's a tragedy teenage girls and young women getting plastic surgery when they don't need it