This all makes sense I don't see how this will work if you got a full time or demanding job

If your university or college where you've got loads of free time to do all this romantic crap

It makes perfect sense of you working a 12 hour shift at McDonald's

They just would not have the free time or the money I worked 6 days a week working 12 hours shifts

And just couldn't not be doing that kind of extended get to know you phase of the relationship