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Why The True Controversy is Not About Body, Count It’s In Fact About Emotional Intimacy
Welcome back. For today’s article, I will discuss the controversial topic which keeps appearing on my media thread on medium with articles with people and writers discussing the female body count and whether or not it is relevant how many people a woman has or has not had sexual relations with.
I will argue for this article that body count doesn’t matter; what does matter is emotional intimacy and whether or not a man or a woman who has had several sexual encounters with different people is capable of having emotional intimacy with their current partner.
For a woman who lives in a Western liberal nation, it’s doubtful by the time she reaches her mid-20s that she will be a virgin and that it is something that is normal for men and women to live their lives the way they choose to live.
The average age for a woman to marry in the United Kingdom is 30 years. For an American woman, it’s 28.
For a man, it is two years old.
This slight gap between 30 and 32, respectively, is because, on average, most women prefer a man a few years older than themselves.
Women prefer older men because men tend to be a few years behind developmentally, emotionally and intellectually behind their…