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Why Woman Can Be Ruthless When Dating
I recently attended a speed dating event on November 5th, 2024. There were 16 men and eight women at the event, and I must say that the women were ruthless. They needed to be that way because they didn’t want BS men, and they didn’t want their time wasted.
Also, the age range for the event is between 24 and 34, and the women were aged in their late 20s to early 30s, meaning they were looking for an established man with a good-paying job and permanent security.
(Here is my behind the paywall link.)
When women get older, they are less willing for the men in their lives to catch up or establish themselves. Again, this makes personal sense because if you are a woman at 31, you don’t want to wait five years for the man you are with to get to your level.
Please keep in mind at the age of 31 geriatric pregnancy starts at the age of 35, and if you spend two years getting to know each other and living together, that’s 2 years, and that means by the end, they may only have one or two children, which for the west tends to be the norm.
But life doesn’t always where on the life schedules that we want.
I am a struggling marketer and writer. It’s a hard business to work in and very competitive. I make no excuses.
I was torn to shreds when I stated that I am a writer on Medium and a self-published writer and that I have been working in minimum-paid jobs for the last 12 months.
