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Why Women Don’t Want Sex and Why Men Do
The Question of why women don’t want sex is complicated and is unique to each woman, couple, and their relationship and dynamics of their relationship. Therefore, for this article, it has to be strongly highlighted that I can only write generalisations.
This will not be a cure for a lack of sexlessness between men and women, nor is this article saying that women should sleep with their husbands or boyfriends.
Furthermore, this piece will focus primarily on heterosexual relationships between a biological man and a biological woman due to the dynamics between lesbian and gay couples as well as people who are transgender having different relationship dynamics and biology.
People transitioning from a biological male into a trans woman have almost no sex drive due to loss of libido and decline of testosterone within their body system.
Modern media has over-sexualised trans-woman, but in reality, they’re not, on average, that interested in sex.
As for lesbian and gay couples, the National Institute of Health found that an MSM engaged in an average of 81 sex acts per year with their last male sexual partner (102 sex acts with a primary partner; 46 sex acts with a casual partner).
