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Why Women Hate Nice Guys and Why It’s Not What You Think
For people reading this, you may have seen or read information from the Rational Male podcast, Fresh and Fit podcast or the Red Pill online culture.
If you have, you may think that nice guys finish last because they are losers or feminine men.
Nothing can be further from the truth.
There is a massive difference between being a nice guy who does not stick up for themselves or has appropriate boundaries within their relationship, both of a sexual and personal nature.
Friendly people still have boundaries and can defend themselves emotionally, physically and within different social groups.
Nice guys finish last either from the mainstream education system or have taught behaviours that enable people to take advantage of them.
Learned Behaviours
Humans are creatures of repetition and enjoy being within our comfort zone.
This behaviour contributes to the lack of willingness of both men and women to defend their boundaries or express discomfort.
